Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He discovered that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a walnut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, a woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. Some questions are still unanswered: does every woman have it, and if so, can anyone experience an orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G-spot
Your partner can look for the G-spot, or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, apply a special lubricant to them in advance. After inserting the fingers into the vagina, it is necessary to bend them upwards so that they touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G spot
Insert the lubricated fingers into the vagina, gently press the pubis with the other hand, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally slightly curved upwards, then you will have more positions that promote stimulation, even the classic missionary is included in the calculation. Another simple and effective position is for the woman on top and the partners to be face to face.
What is jet orgasm
When stimulating the G-spot, the girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific liquid is released from the girl's vagina. In order to achieve such an orgasm, the partner must insert lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, this must be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax by massaging with massage oil. The girl should lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a jet orgasm, the desire to urinate appears, but that feeling quickly passes and the desired satisfaction comes. However, for your self-confidence, it is recommended to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls achieve results only after 2 weeks of training. You just need to learn to relax and trust your partner completely.
Where is the G-spot in women and how to find it? These intriguing questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to get indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this zone. Men want to please their partners and at the same time raise their self-esteem as talented and experienced lovers. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the point location range is 1-10 cm. In addition, it is far from always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all the effort. Most importantly, do not forget that in a calm state the mysterious point is barely noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in size and becomes very palpable. The point, or zone, has a slightly rough surface and somewhat resembles a bristle or a walnut shell, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina.
So let's start looking for the magic point:
- First of all, do your best to arouse a lot of excitement in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before its beginning or immediately after it, the point is best probed.
- The most suitable for searching is the position in which the partner lies on her back, with her legs wide apart. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area below the pubic bone itself. Keep in mind that digital statistics about the location of the G-spot are not an axiom, and for different women the precious zone may not be in exactly the same places.
- In almost all women of the fairer sex, this part of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, in order to find it out, it is often necessary to press quite hard and actively on the area under study. Ask the woman to suggest which direction you should move.
- If you feel the need to urinate while looking for a partner, you are most likely on the right track. When you press the G-spot, this reaction, along with a feeling of discomfort, occurs in many women. Don't worry, these types of sensations go away pretty quickly and are replaced by a sense of growing excitement.
- The G-spot resembles a small hard lump, no bigger than a pea. Try grabbing it with two fingers. Then begin to rhythmically squeeze and release the lump, press and release it, trying to be strong and at the same time delicate to avoid injury to the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone talks about the G spot, but few people talk about the other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have repeatedly heard about the miraculous properties of the special point G on the female body, but few people understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few people know about the existence of at least 3 other special points, i. e. whose stimulation will give the woman particularly pleasant sensations. Those same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronyms G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at the erogenous zones on the female body, where they are located, how to stimulate them and what effect the woman will get from the stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina. It is a hypersensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, which contains 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, unlike other areas that do not contain more than 30 nerve endings. That is, stimulation of this zone will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator that has the appropriate purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women
Point A
Where is a woman's erogenous zone called the A-spot? You can find this intimate point on the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like the G, a hypersensitive area measuring 2 to 4 cm. With strong excitement, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly, and the male penis can penetrate her neck by almost 3 centimeters. In addition, this zone does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which allows prolonging the pleasure.
K-point
The K-point is located on the back wall of the vagina, and the stimulation of this point is performed during anal sex, but provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thick. Stimulation of this zone, unlike the previous two zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences, love and attachment to the partner, but gives a particularly sharp and colorful orgasm.
To the point
What other erogenous zones do women have? Point U is soft erectile tissue, also permeated with nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissues. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U-spot, a strong sexual desire and the desire to urinate occur at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U point, but also on Skene's glands, the so-called "prostate" of a woman, which is located all over the spongy body of the urethra. These zones are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit from the urethra, in the middle of the canal or on the neck itself. Their location is an important factor for the sensitivity of the U-point. During normal sex, the U-point is not affected, so it must be specially stimulated with circular movements of the finger. Simultaneous stimulation of the G and U points in women sometimes leads to so-called "squirting" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated on it. In fact, in the body of every man there is another powerful sexual tool that actively participates in every sexual relationship. It refers to the prostate or, in other words, the prostate.
In a rush of passion, few people remember the presence of the prostate. And completely in vain. It, like the main male sex organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists put it on par with the female G-spot, because the competent effect on the prostate is accompanied by unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious zone in a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for a precious spot on your partner's body, ask him to go through a little preparation. A man should ideally clean his intestines and empty his rectum with an enema, which will make the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetically pleasing.
- Do your best to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner insecurity will lead to the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experiment. Find out from the man if he really wants to be a part of this. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Trim your nails without fail. If you have extended nails, do not even try to look for the G-spot, because it is fraught with the appearance of microtrauma in the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before but also after searching for and finding the precious point. Do not touch the male genital organ or your genitals with the hand that was used in the search, and even better, use disposable gloves. In this way, you will protect yourself from various microorganisms from your partner's colon that can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of intercourse. It is better to move it to the moment when you feel the climax is about to begin. Otherwise, you can simply destroy your partner's sexual mood and even make him uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from the head and smoothly moving to the stomach and back. Pay special attention to the buttocks. Massage your partner with gentle and gentle movements.
- Have your man lie on his back. At that time you will place yourself between his legs and very gently and carefully insert your finger into his anus, not forgetting to use petroleum jelly or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel a lump the size of a chestnut on the front wall of the intestine on the side of the abdomen.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably on the right, and press your knees firmly against your stomach. This position will not only make it easier for you, but also allow the man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to get absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
Stimulation of erogenous zones enables both the man and his partner to reach orgasm.
They started talking about the fact that there is a special place - dot ji, in the middle of the last century. There is still no consensus on where the G-spot is. Women usually have no problem determining its coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - from 3 to 5 cm from the entrance. You can see what the erogenous epicenter itself looks like on a separate video. There are also photographs in which a particular spot looks like a grain of small size.
To recognize the ji point, it is not necessary to study the video. This place is quite tangible with tactile inspection. If this area is stimulated, there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding the erogenous point is not difficult at all, for that you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical of the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the g-spot is when a woman is in a state of sexual excitement. This zone is less sensitive for every girl, so it needs to be additionally and actively stimulated. In order to master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
When intercourse occurs, there is no stimulation of the g sex, so some women doubt the existence of such a place. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, in order to detect the presence of the ji microzone, one of the optimal positions should be chosen.
They include the following provisions:
- the partner is behind;
- the girl takes a rider's pose and leans back hard.
Even a close study of the video or photo is not always helpful in finding the answer, how to find the ji point? That doesn't mean your sex life will be any less impressive.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, emotional rather than physiological sensations from sex prevail. Some girls notice that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
The older women are, the less significant is the use of the g factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, the task of finding the supererogenous point is relevant only for those women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of the ji point of the partner?
If the problem of the location of the ji area in women can be solved by the tactile method, then the question of how to find the partner's g point is not difficult at all.
Finding such a place in the men's half is even easier, you don't even need a training video. The analogue of the ji point is the prostate.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (it can be seen in the video). To get to the "g spot" of a man, you have to use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: the finger is gently inserted into the anus and there is a slight bulge on the side of the abdomen. This will be Mr. Zone. It is located somewhere four to five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will like this unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If she managed to find the location of the g zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for caressing. All these actions must be performed very delicately.
If partners decide to find a unique zone g, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the dedicated video above.
With mutual consent, try to find a precious object called the "g-spot" through tactile exploration. For some couples, the magical g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more vibrant.
By exploring each other's bodies, lovers can achieve true pleasure!